Tuesday

on my mind...


I watched 500 Days of Summer today, such a good honest movie.  Its about the constant struggle we experience between our reality and our own expectations.  Partially in relationships, there is so much that goes unspoken.  This couldn’t be more obvious in a world where its easy to complicate our lives and over think them.
  
This movie reminds me of the pain experienced when a relationship ends.  Its a painful process that only time heals. (as much as we don’t want to admit)  The truth is we all have something to learn from each other and we should look at each relationship as just that.  Each relationship changes us. 

Love is not always what we see in Hollywood "chick flicks", love is way more powerful and simple.  It will challenge you to your core... not overnight, not by some "magic", its not lust and its a lot of work. Its a force that encourages you be a better version as yourself, its your compliment, your help, your comfort, pure joy and pain and because of this you grow.  If your not growing, if your not challenged, your not in love. Love is not always what we see in Hollywood chick flicks, love is way more powerful and it will challenge you to your core. 

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